As we mentioned previously in Using Parental Monitoring Software to Cope, we understand some parents worry about trust when using software such as SpyAgent Monitoring Software.
Will my kids still trust me after I install SpyAgent on my household computer?
There certainly is a right way and a wrong way to use SpyAgent to monitor your kids, tweens, and teens activities online.
What we recommend is coming up with a decent set of rules that both you, the parent, and your kids will agree with. Setting rules like time allowed on the computer, websites allowed, restrictions on posting private information to public areas such as forums, etc will help.
Once your kids realize that what they do online will be monitored at all times, they will more than likely stop doing sketchy things online. If your kids understand what is right and wrong and know the consequences of their actions, a product like SpyAgent parental monitoring software would be a perfect fit without much loss to having a trust bond between both parent and child.
Unless drastic measures are required to an unruly child (hello? take away the damn computer already!), we do not recommend installing SpyAgent on a computer secretly without them knowing. The only time we recommend it is if you wish to analyze what your kids are doing online, finding out all the details, but don’t let them know you have this information.
Instead, with this new power of knowledge, you can set the ground rules to fix the situation, let the kids know that you are installing monitoring software after your discussion, and then, if the problem persists, have the discussion about your more recent findings (after they were notified it was installed) and possibly punish.
If you secretly install the software, punish them for their wrongdoings before settings the ground rules, you will have one heck of a problem with trust, lots of agruments, fights, and a child who feels betrayed.
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